Category: Faith in the Struggle

The Path to Freedom

When he saw them he said to them, “Go and show yourselves to the priests.” And as they went they were cleansed. Luke 17:14 It’s a common phenomenon for the addict to think he knows best when it comes to finding recovery. Though he’s been told by counselors and others what he needs to do,…
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Faith is Only for the Weak

The apostles said to the Lord, “Increase our faith!” Luke 17:5 Many times, in my addiction, I prayed for God to make me a bigger, better person. I hated the fact that I had an appetite for pills, and I begged God to take away that appetite. Make me strong. Make me hate what I’m…
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Forgiving the Repeat Offender

If your brother sins, rebuke him, and if he repents, forgive him, and if he sins against you seven times in the day, and turns to you seven times, saying, “I repent,” you must forgive him. Luke 17:3-4 A repeat offender, like the addict who has relapsed over and over, loves Christ’s message of forgiveness.…
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Don’t Rock the Boat

If your brother sins, rebuke him . . . Luke 17:3 Upon moving to Minnesota several years ago, I learned about Minnesota Nice, an apparent regional tendency of being kind, respectful, and courteous. I hadn’t moved far to get to Minnesota, so I was probably already Minnesota Nice without really knowing it. For me though,…
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Totally Clueless

Pay attention to yourselves! Luke 17:3 When I first went to college, I apparently had a habit of being a “one-upper”. Whenever anyone told a story, I had a bigger, better story that I needed to tell. I remained blissfully unaware of this annoying habit, until one of the guys I hung out with, started…
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No More Second Chances

The rich man also died and was buried . . . Luke 16:22 The addict quickly learns behavioral patterns that work out to the benefit of his drug use. In my own addiction, I learned that people were pretty forgiving if I made a show at attempting recovery. In my first two relapses, there were…
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Pursuing Divorce

Everyone who divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery, and he who marries a woman divorced from her husband commits adultery. Luke 16:18 At a wedding last weekend, I had cause to look back over my own twenty years of marriage. Our wedding was a beautiful day on which we took vows to love and…
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Jealous Addiction

No servant can serve two masters, for either he will hate the one and love the other, or he will be devoted to the one and despise the other. You cannot serve God and money. Luke 16:13 It is the nature of addiction to consume the addict’s life. As the obsession with getting, using, and…
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The Snowball Effect

We got more snow last winter than I recall ever getting before. At one point, late in the winter, we felt compelled to remove some of the snow piling up on the roof of our house. As I huffed and puffed shoveling, my resourceful son simply started with a small snowball at the peak of…
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The Sin of the Self-Righteous

“Your brother has come, and your father has killed the fattened calf, because he has received him back safe and sound.” But he was angry and refused to go in. Luke 15:27-28 Self-righteousness is one of those attributes that’s easy to see in others. In my own addiction, I was acutely sensitive to those whom…
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