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. . . A wife’s quarreling is a continual dripping of rain. Proverbs 19:13 If you are like me, you are often acutely aware of how bad other drivers are. As one cuts in front of me or another drives slowly in the passing lane, I’m thinking, Stupid drivers. Then, the other day, it was…
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A fool takes no pleasure in understanding, but only in expressing his opinion. Proverbs 18:2 I’ve been in recovery for a couple years, during which time I’ve asked many questions about faith and addiction. I’ve read through the Bible a couple times and I feel God has given me some answers. I’m thankful for that, but…
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Whoever isolates himself seeks his own desire . . . Proverbs 18:1 There are addicts who seek out the company of other addicts, and then there are those of us who isolate. Ashamed by our behavior, we hide it with darkness, lying and sneaking, in an attempt to maintain a facade that conceals who we truly…
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Even a fool who keeps silent is considered wise; when he closes his lips, he is deemed intelligent. Proverbs 17:28 Recently, I heard about something absurd another person said. It didn’t involve me, but still, I was irritated and spent a fair amount of energy planning what I was going to say this person or to…
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Whoever mocks the poor insults his Maker; he who is glad at calamity will not go unpunished. Proverbs 17:5 My family occasionally watches a TV show comprised of funny home videos, in which the dad usually gets hit in the groin with a baseball bat or a golf ball. I always find it funny, which disturbs…
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Pride goes before destruction and a haughty spirit before a fall. Proverbs 16:18 A close friend recently asked if it was possible that part of the reason I go to the gym had something to do with vanity, pride and affirmation. The idea was absurd, and I said so. That’s stupid, because first of all, no…
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There is a way that seems right to a man, but its end is the way to death. Proverbs 14:12 During the summer, I try to ride bike once or twice a week, but lately I’ve had an inordinate number of mechanical issues. Yesterday then, I filled my tires, checked things over and when I…
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Whoever walks with the wise becomes wise, but the companion of fools will suffer harm. Proverbs 13:20 I attend multiple recovery/accountability meetings each week. I’ve found it necessary for both my faith and recovery to surround myself with those who are going in the direction that I want to go. These groups have their regulars, who…
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Do not reprove a scoffer, or he will hate you; reprove a wise man, and he will love you. Proverbs 9:8 Though some people don’t like the word, I refer to my character flaws as defects. I have a lot of them. I refer to them as defects as they are unhelpful ways in which I…
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For whoever finds me finds life and . . . all who hate me love death. Proverbs 8:35-36 In Proverbs, Solomon personified wisdom and folly as two women, both of whom called to the son he was instructing. Folly is pictured as the seductive prostitute while wisdom is a chaste, Godly woman. Both women seek the…
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