Month: August 2025

Humility is Always a Good Choice

You save a humble people, but your eyes are on the haughty to bring them down. 2 Samuel 22:28 I like to think that I’m physically strong and, to be fair, I can probably squat more than most 52-year-olds. Do I find some satisfaction in that? I’d be lying if I said I didn’t. It…
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Trying to Mow the Lawn

For I have kept the ways of the LORD and have not wickedly departed from my God. 2 Samuel 22:22 I set out to mow the lawn a couple of days ago and found that a job that usually takes me 1-2 hours ended up taking much longer. Before I could mow, I had to…
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Where Do I Turn When Stressed?

The LORD is my rock and my fortress and my deliverer, my God, my rock, in whom I take refuge . . . 2 Samuel 22:2-3 I’ve heard of those people who, when stressed, stop eating. I can’t eat at a time like this. That’s not me. I eat my feelings. Last October, when I…
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Getting Older

There was war again between the Philistines and Israel, and David went down together with his servants, and they fought against the Philistines. And David grew weary. 2 Samuel 21:15 Recently, I was fortunate enough to travel with my wife, my adult children, and my parents to visit extended family. Every time I make a…
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Reconcilation

And they did all that the king commanded. And after that God responded to the plea for the land. 2 Samuel 21:14 I wrote yesterday about making amends, which is something I needed to do for my own recovery. This involved me admitting I was wrong, me offering an apology, me taking responsibility, and me…
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Making Amends with the Difficult People

Now there was a famine in the days of David for three years, year after year. And David sought the face of the LORD. And the LORD said, “There is bloodguilt on Saul and on his house, because he put the Gibeonites to death.” 2 Samuel 21:1 Step nine of the 12 steps says that…
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The Story of My Life

And the king said to Shimei, “You shall not die.” And the king gave him his oath. 2 Samuel 19:23 Recently, I was asked what I might speak about at a church event. I responded that I’m a bit of a broken record as I really have only one message, which is this – When…
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What I Feel Like Saying and What I Should Say

Then Joab came into the house to the king and said, “You have today covered with shame the faces of all your servants, who have this day saved your life and the lives of your sons and your daughters . . .” 2 Samuel 19:5 In my drug addiction, my appetite made my decisions, which…
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A Father’s Decisions

And the king ordered Joab and Abishai and Ittai, “Deal gently for my sake with the young man Absalom.” 2 Samuel 18:5 I recently asked my parents what advice they’d give to their kids, grandchildren, and great grandchildren. My father challenged us to discover and become who God made us to be. My mother said…
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Hypocrite and Traitor

When Ahithophel saw that his counsel was not followed, he saddled his donkey and went off home to his own city. He set his house in order and hanged himself, and he died and was buried in the tomb of his father. 2 Samuel 17:23 My wife showed me a story a while back about…
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