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Month: November 2023

The Plastic Bowl of Power

Laban had gone to shear his sheep, and Rachel stole her father’s household gods. Genesis 31:19 Recently, at our jail Bible study, one of the guys mentioned the source of an ongoing conflict – a plastic bowl. The inmates have access to a vending machine with microwavable rice and noodles, but to cook anything in…
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Is My Spouse On Board with This?

Then Rachel and Leah answered and said to him . . . “Whatever God has said to you, do.” Genesis 31:14-16 A couple of years ago, when approached about working in jail medicine, I was hesitant. I had a good job, and this new job represented a financial step backwards. It was a unique opportunity…
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Picking Up My Son at the Airport

Then the LORD said to Jacob, “Return to the land of your fathers and to your kindred, and I will be with you.” Genesis 31:3 My son flew in yesterday for his Thanksgiving break from college. We live a couple of hours from the airport though, so earlier in the week, I had to make…
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Kevin Bacon, Dancing, and Alcohol

Thus the man increased greatly and had large flocks, female servants and male servants, and camels and donkeys. Genesis 30:43 I grew up in a conservative country church, where we simply didn’t dance or go to dances. Then, I saw Footloose, in which the hero of the story used a Bible passage about King David’s…
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Money and Family

But that day Laban removed the male goats that were striped and spotted, and all the female goats that were speckled and spotted, every one that had white on it, and every lamb that was black, and put them in the charge of his sons. Genesis 30:35 In my addiction, I used my prescribing power…
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The Definition of Insanity . . . and Addiction

And Leah conceived again, and she bore Jacob a sixth son. Then Leah said, “God has endowed me with a good endowment; now my husband will honor me, because I have borne him six sons.”  Genesis 30:19 How did I become addicted? It’s not something I planned on, of course. I simply followed my appetite.…
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Refuse to Play

Then Rachel said, “With mighty wrestlings I have wrestled with my sister and have prevailed.” Genesis 30:8 My wife and I have come a long way since the disaster of my addiction, but that doesn’t mean we do marriage perfectly. We still have our moments when we bicker over stupid stuff, and once we both…
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My Family Dysfunction

Leah conceived and bore a son . . . Again she conceived and bore a son, and said, “Now this time my husband will be attached to me, because I have borne him three sons.” . . . When Rachel saw that she bore Jacob no children, she envied her sister. Genesis 29:32-3:1 In my…
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My People

Leah’s eyes were weak, but Rachel was beautiful in form and appearance. Genesis 29:17 A while back, my wife and I were sitting in church when a couple of guys walked in late. Everyone noticed because they were what you might call rough around the edges. My wife leaned over and asked if I knew…
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All the Pain You Cannot See

So Jacob went in to Rachel also, and he loved Rachel more than Leah . . . Genesis 29:30 During my journey through outpatient and eventually inpatient addiction treatment, I met with multiple counselors who asked me repeatedly about Adverse Childhood Events (ACEs). Those counselors wanted to know if I’d suffered verbal, physical, or sexual…
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